Lauren Xu, LCSW

Outpatient Therapist in Virtual Office

Hello! I'm Lauren, an LCSW with more than 6 years of experience providing psychotherapy to teens, young adults, couples, and adults. I identify as Chinese American, and I have experience working with people with a vast array of racial, ethnic, gender, sexual, and religious identities.

I am currently accepting couples who are looking to work on their connection together, particularly while exploring issues around physical intimacy, like navigating changes to the body with age, performance anxiety/ erectile dysfunction, and meeting both individual and couple needs. I specialize in working with people who struggle to maintain a balance between respecting individual needs within the context of cultural and family expectations, and with those who have experienced trauma and/or loss. I have extensive experience working with those who have experienced trauma, depression, anxiety/ panic, perfectionism, and ADHD.

I strive to maintain an inclusive, brave space. I encourage therapy to be a brave place, and not a safe place, because it is very brave to show up and work on getting out of the safety of the known and to work towards fostering a better future. My practice has been informed by Relational Sex Therapy, DBT, and attachment theory.

I am a strong believer that communication is key in the therapeutic relationship, and I invite my clients to let me know what is and is not working for them. I believe that therapy should be an empowering and restorative experience for you.

I look forward to meeting with you, and I commend you for taking this step toward bettering your mental health.

Call Restoration Counseling Center today at 704-502-9397 or email admin@restorationcounselingclt.com to schedule an appointment. We also offer a 100% risk-free initial consultation.

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